When you shift from a personal attribution for not knowing—thinking, ‘I don’t know, but everyone else seems to, so I’ll fake it or avoid the situation’—to a universal attribution—realizing, ‘I don’t know, you don’t know, nobody knows’—you stand taller. This allows you to embrace what I believe is the most successful mindset: confident uncertainty.
Ellen J. Langer — When you shift from a personal attribution for not knowing—t
When you shift from a personal attribution for not knowing—thinking, ‘I don’t know, but everyone else seems to, so I’ll fake it or avoid the situation’—to a universal attribution—realizing, ‘I don’t know, you don’t know, nobody knows’—you stand taller. This…