Judge Judith Sheindlin — When you’re involved in conflict, you’re not sane. You may s

When you’re involved in conflict, you’re not sane. You may start out being sane, and in those early stages it’s certainly possible to mediate and arbitrate. Using those tools you often end up cutting the baby in half – you give a little, I give a little, you give a little more, I give a little more, and suddenly everyone is miserable.