What we see in the science is something very different. We often see that romantic partners basically see the best in each other. They’re wearing rose-coloured glasses. And the primary thing that brings people together is what we would call attachment bonds or pair bonds: the idea that people are looking for somebody who they feel has their back, somebody who’s going to celebrate their successes, and somebody who’s going to be there for them.
Paul Eastwick — What we see in the science is something very different. We o
What we see in the science is something very different. We often see that romantic partners basically see the best in each other. They’re wearing rose-coloured glasses. And the primary thing that brings people together is what we would call…