I think the people who are larger or those who have more resources like to think they're the ones who have greater power… and they have benefited from that illusion.
— Barry NalebuffCo-Author of "Co-opetition" & Yale School of Management Professor
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I think the people who are larger or those who have more resources like to think they're the ones who have greater power… and they have benefited from that illusion.
— Barry NalebuffCo-Author of "Co-opetition" & Yale School of Management Professor
A lot of negotiation is teaching people tricks or verbal games, as opposed to providing a framework for thinking about negotiation. People want to come up with a solution that's fair. But what they think of as fair is often proportional division, and that just arises because they don't really understand what they're negotiating over.
— Barry NalebuffCo-Author of "Co-opetition" & Yale School of Management Professor
It doesn't matter how successful you are, how much market share you have, if you're in your comfort zone you will leave yourself exposed. Courage also links to decisiveness, which is one of the key attributes of great leaders. Cowardice pushes the day of reckoning out, decisiveness brings it closer.
— Pepyn DinandtIf I practice friendship for the sake of my friend, I will have pleasure in it. If I practice friendship for the sake of pleasure, in the long run I'll have neither pleasure nor friendship.
— J. BudziszewskiProfessor of Government and Philosophy at University of Texas at Austin
People do confuse pleasure for happiness, but as Mortimer J. Adler put it, there is a big difference between a having a good time and having a good life. Pleasure is best understood not as the very good itself, but as a by-product of pursuing the things that really are good.
— J. BudziszewskiProfessor of Government and Philosophy at University of Texas at Austin
To be completely happy is the same as to be fulfilled, to flourish, or to thrive – to enjoy complete well-being, to have our complete and final good. We seek happiness for its own sake, not to get something else. This is our goal and deepest longing.
— J. BudziszewskiProfessor of Government and Philosophy at University of Texas at Austin
An example is when you catch a cricket ball your brain is doing the equivalent of solving differential equations, but you do it unconsciously.
— Richard DawkinsEvolutionary Biologist & Author of "The Selfish Gene
Birds are not born with an innate genetically determined knowledge of constellations. What they do has been brilliantly shown in an experiment by Stephen Emlen.
— Richard DawkinsEvolutionary Biologist & Author of "The Selfish Gene
75% of people won't purchase from a brand they don't inherently trust.
— Erik HubermanPoliticians often forget that people are much more complex, and are a mix of many identities – and each of these identities can be of differing importance to the individual.
— Christer SturmarkMagical thinking is a bi-product of cognitive process that were useful in our evolutionary survival. We're so good at seeing patterns that we see patterns everywhere, even when they don't exist.
— Christer SturmarkWe have to be aware of our cognitive fallacies to build some immunity to our cognitive traps. We can never get rid of our bias, but we can be more aware of it.
— Christer SturmarkOur cognitive capability to reason has not evolved to find truth, it evolved to help us survive and that means that we sometimes find it easier to stay with a group rather than believe the correct thing.
— Christer SturmarkWhen you're involved in conflict, you're not sane. You may start out being sane, and in those early stages it's certainly possible to mediate and arbitrate.
— Judge Judith SheindlinCreator and star of TV show "Judge Judy" for 25 years
When I got better, even simple things like being able to wake-up, go for a walk, speak, and observe life, felt viscerally stunning and good. I found a state of being – a state that gave me perspective and feeling about life and my place in it.
— Katie MeluaGeorgian-British singer-songwriter known for "Nine Million Bicycles
Songs are these magnetic creations of words and music, in very short form. A song needs to hit you in less than a minute and sometimes it can be an incredibly solitary, emotional experience where it's just you and the imagined relationship with that singer.
— Katie MeluaGeorgian-British singer-songwriter known for "Nine Million Bicycles