“What we see in the science is something very different. We often see that romantic partners basically see the best in each other. They're wearing rose-coloured glasses. And the primary thing that brings people together is what we would call attachment bonds or pair bonds: the idea that people are looking for somebody who they feel has their back, somebody who's going to celebrate their successes, and somebody who's going to be there for them.”
— Paul Eastwick

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Education

A growing archive of 3,000+ moments, drawn from every interview.

All ideas and questions might be very interesting, and children has to experience that their questions are equally valued as those coming from a grown up or a Nobel Prize winner.

— May-Britt Moser

Neuroscientist; Nobel Prize for discovering brain's positioning system cells

We live in a very unethical society. We don't teach ethics at home, schools or university. As a consequence most businesses don't have a code of ethics or conduct.

— Frank Abagnale

Notorious con artist and impostor who inspired the film "Catch Me If You Can

I'm a school drop-out that is now teaching professors and doctors around the world; all because of a naïve woman's wish for her child to live.

— Wim Hof

Extreme athlete known for ice exposure & breathing technique methods

In postmodernism, there are no absolute truths; everything is relative, of course other than the one absolute truth that there are no absolute truths. This is a form of intellectual terrorism, nihilism.

— Gad Saad

Evolutionary Psychologist & Author Known for Consumer Behavior Research

The main currency on our campuses has become the management of hurt feelings.

— Gad Saad

Evolutionary Psychologist & Author Known for Consumer Behavior Research

It takes intellectuals to come up with some of the most moronic ideas possible.

— Gad Saad

Evolutionary Psychologist & Author Known for Consumer Behavior Research

If Leonardo Da Vinci could somehow be transported to the present, he would be blown away by the level of knowledge that's available to all of us by a simple press of a key. It follows that we all have the opportunity to be on the level of Da Vinci or Franklin because we all have access to so many different forms of knowledge.

— Robert Greene

Author of "The 48 Laws of Power" & Strategist

The 'confidence gap' begins to manifest itself in girls at an alarmingly young age. For example, a recent study on gender stereotypes and children's perception of brilliance revealed the worrying fact that girls start doubting their own intelligence and capabilities as early as age six.

— Cherie Blair

Wife of former UK Prime Minister Tony Blair & Human rights lawyer

People suffer from the curse of knowledge, they don't know what they don't know! All of us have different starting points, different assumptions and a different knowledge base.

— Chris Anderson

Curator of TED Talks & Author of "The Long Tail

The single most important thing someone can do for a talk is to plan three or four rehearsals in front of people who are like the audience who will be receiving it; it may be one person or three, but you really should do that and discover what works, what doesn't, what's clumsy, what resonates.

— Chris Anderson

Curator of TED Talks & Author of "The Long Tail

People who learn fast and who have some level of 'natural' talent may go home from practice early because they don't have to work as hard as others to get to their target level of achievement, but when you study super-achievers, you find that instead of going home early, they work late, and really pull-away from the crowd.

— Angela Duckworth

Psychologist & Author of "Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance

You achieve your best performance by doing the best you can without having your mind clouded by drifting thoughts of what could happen when something goes wrong. That's what you train for, and your training gives you the ability to build the mental tools and programmes of action to make good decisions.

— Buzz Aldrin

Lunar Module Pilot on Apollo 11; Second Person to Walk on Moon

You can't go through life in that negative frame of mind. Just go, see what happens… challenge it. It's better to go to University and have an education doing what you want, rather than what you don't.

— Tracey Emin

British artist known for provocative conceptual and autobiographical works

I've always been self-taught, sort of like the Grandma Moses of acting. If I'd gone to drama school, I would probably have had a very different career- perhaps not as much fun in some ways.

— Sam Neill

Actor best known for Jurassic Park and The Piano films

Stories help us to develop cognitive flexibility, strengthen our epistemic muscles. It is an intellectual growth but also a spiritual one. It changes us deep inside. Stories rehumanize those who have been dehumanized.

— Elif Shafak

Turkish-British novelist and author of "The Forty Rules of Love

There is no such thing as History with a capital H. There are histories, multiple stories waiting to be told, researched, understood and appreciated. The story changes depending on who tells it.

— Elif Shafak

Turkish-British novelist and author of "The Forty Rules of Love