Connection is not a nice to have. When we lose the right kinds of connections with others, we start to feel we don't exist. Buried underneath the complexity and the contempt, there's something wrong with how we're connecting as a society that's fuelling the anger we see.
— Douglas Board“I'm fortunate that I can make a change that in a very positive way affects a better way of life for many humans as well as all living creatures and our planet.”— John Paul Dejoria
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the knowledge that we must die 'the worm at the core' of the human condition
— William JamesPioneering American psychologist and philosopher; founder of pragmatism
Without what Becker called 'cultural world views' we would be overwhelmed by existential terror. Beliefs about reality that we share foster psychological equanimity by giving us a sense of meaning and value.
— Ernest BeckerPulitzer Prize-winning author of "The Denial of Death
Ernest Becker proposed that we still worship, it's just that we worship money and political leaders or become members of cults, conspiracy groups or yoga! These are just different ways of dealing with death and anxiety.
— Ernest BeckerPulitzer Prize-winning author of "The Denial of Death
the distinguishing characteristic of humanity is our awareness that death is inevitable and the disinclination to accept that fact. Very simply, Becker says that we're just like all other creatures- we want to survive- but the difference is that we're able to do it using our vast intelligence. We can imagine things that don't exist and make them real.
— Ernest BeckerPulitzer Prize-winning author of "The Denial of Death
it is our knowledge that we have to die that makes us human
— Alexander SmithEven in those very difficult moments, I had enough freedom to choose who I wanted to be in the face of that circumstance. For all of us, the challenge is to rise above our experiences and make choices to choose light over darkness.
— Ingrid BetancourtFormer Colombian Presidential Candidate & Hostage Rescue Survivor
I truly believe humans have the capacity to change. That's the definition of freedom… our ability to choose who we want to be.
— Ingrid BetancourtFormer Colombian Presidential Candidate & Hostage Rescue Survivor
Human dignity can seem abstract, but when you are transformed into merchandise, something to be exchanged or bargained with, you need the intellectual, emotional and spiritual tools to cling to your humanity. That's the only way you can retain value in your own eyes.
— Ingrid BetancourtFormer Colombian Presidential Candidate & Hostage Rescue Survivor
My mindset changed from thinking that tomorrow I may be freed, to realising that unless I did something myself, nobody would come and rescue me. One of the ways I gathered strength was by constantly plotting my escape.
— Ingrid BetancourtFormer Colombian Presidential Candidate & Hostage Rescue Survivor
In space, you can only worry about the things you can control – not the constant low-level simmering danger that you might explode and die. If you worried about that, even a two-week flight would be hell, never mind a 200 day one.
— Colonel Terry VirtsNASA Astronaut & International Space Station Commander
The perspective of seeing the Earth from space has rewired our brain. We used to have a 2-dimensional view for hundreds of thousands of years. Then we became 3-dimensional with aircraft and rockets. Now with Hubble we have a 4-dimensional view of our universe. When you see a galaxy that's a billion light years away, you're seeing a billion years into the past in real time.
— Colonel Terry VirtsNASA Astronaut & International Space Station Commander
We must not only use the emotional part of exploration, but also the state of mind of exploration which encourages us to get out of our bad habits, beliefs, everything we know, our comfort zone, and even our way of thinking. The mindset of exploration encourages us to find new solutions.
— Bertrand PiccardSwiss Adventurer & Pilot of Solar-Powered Aircraft Solar Impulse
Research tells us that if you have a friend- as a child- who belongs to a group that your own group doesn't get along with, you will never have a bias against that group as an adult.
— Daniel GolemanPsychologist who popularized the concept of emotional intelligence
We have a blind spot about the ways in which the things we innocently buy and use actually are decaying the environment we depend on, the global systems that support life on the planet. We are super-monkeys- super because of the technology, and our monkeys because our brains haven't kept up with the change.
— Daniel GolemanPsychologist who popularized the concept of emotional intelligence
Our brain was designed for survival and was developed in the 99.9% of human history that occurred before culture and civilisation. As a result, there are situations in our lives today where the brain doesn't work so-well. We call this an emotional hijack.
— Daniel GolemanPsychologist who popularized the concept of emotional intelligence